Okay, I know this post is following the sticker post, but I really didn't want to leave that hanging out there as the last thought on the blog. :) So here is something a little heavier:
Well here it is, the mother of all topics, the worst (and best) four letter word that has ever entered into the consciousness of mankind... LOVE.
Well what do I know about it? Not much, but as always, I do have some thoughts. I think that there are two very distinct views on love. Some people believe that love is some fairy-dusted, flowery substance that was destined for two people before the dawn of time, and then there is what I believe. I believe that love is something that does not have a creation date. Love is something that can only be realized later and the creation point will always be mystery. This is what makes it so illusive.
This topic is so very complicated. I mean first you need to understand the difference between emotions, thoughts, and love. Love is not something that you feel, nor is it something that you think, it is something that is. Boy that is so deep that I don't even know if I understand it...
I believe that if you spend enough time with someone, and you devote enough of yourself to them, then over time you will find that you love them. I also believe that once you love someone that there is no going back. You may not like them anymore, or even tolerate them, but you will always love them.
This is why you see women in abusive relationships that keep going back to the guy. That abusive person has captured their love over time and they will never be free of that piece of their heart. (sometimes you have to accept how you feel about someone, but still reject them in your life) That is why it is crucial that you use your head early on in a relationship, and not let the emotions take over before you finally fall in love with someone.
The order is very important - think, feel, love. This is how it works people, don't mess it up, because when you are there, there is NO going back.